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Dissension founded America.   It's a good thing.

We've got to work to save our children and do it with full respect for the fact that if we do not, no one else is going to do it. -       Dr. Dorothy Height

The Revolution will not be televised,
but it is on the Internet! - Ronda Barber

We have to improve life, not just for those who have the most skills and those who know how to manipulate the system. But also for and with those who often have so much to give but never get the opportunity. - Dr. Dorothy Height

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Rather fail with honor than succeed by fraud.
SOPHOCLES

 

Editor's Note:  I DO NOT solicit information about the local NAACP and its leadership.  Truly, folks just come up and tell me stuff.  I am just minding my own business then...

I heard the love doctor ...Donna (she is encouraging me to take the high road) says that I can't tell what I heard. Everyone appears to know and she insists that the latest antics with a high-profile woman speaks for itself and really takes things to an all time low.(9-14-04)

I have received many comments on my choice of the Most Embarrassing Black Person in Newark. Most comments have been positive and they have agreed with my choice and my position. 

A few comments didn't approve of my frank and candid views. Some felt that I shouldn't try to embarrass a Black politician and that problems in the Black community should stay in the Black community.  (For the most part, it was the same critique that Bill Cosby got for commenting on the parenting skills and educational support of some Black parents.) I do believe that what is wrong in the Black community, the Black community can fix. With that,  I strongly contend that if the present Newark City Schools Board President was bold enough not to support a program that is assisting Black students achieve academic success, I am bold enough to tell it, particularly when he foolishly put it in writing. (He can't as he has in the past, call me a liar now!) Enough on him, all that agreed with me have stated they will voice their negative disapproving views of him in the ballot box. (9-10-04)

The most Embarrassing Black person is
Newark City School Board President Jeremy Blake.

As Board President, he was asked to write a letter of support for a grass-roots summer reading program that caters to Black students on Newark's East Side. The program was writing a proposal for funding.  Mr. Blake refused to write a letter to support the program because he was mad at the founder and coordinator of the program. 

Previously, he was a supporter of the program and often used the program for photo opportunities.  The summer reading program founder has made negative but true comments about his character in the past so Blake took his personal feelings out on the children the program serves. 

Thus, in my opinion he doesn't have the maturity or integrity to hold public office.  For the record, all other elected officials who were asked to penned a letter did with the exception of school board member Karen Kreager, but then I have been told my numerous folks that she and her sister stole my campaign yard signs and she probably takes direction from Blake.  What kind of Black man doesn't earnestly support a program that helps Black children, especially when there appears to be a wide gap in the achievement rate of students of color.  He's a bootlicker, who's  interest isn't  in the children in our community. He is a politician who is looking out for his career.

Back by popular demand!  The second annual  Most Embarrassing Black Person in Newark Award.  Last year's winner was Rita Jackson, Newark City Schools Diversity Coordinator and President of the pitiful Licking County NAACP.  She has sold Black folks out for personal gain and local media attention.  The runner up was  Anita Waters.  Cast your votes today, just drop me an email.  I'll put my list up tomorrow.  It will be interesting reading and my picks may surprise you. 5/27/04.

Was yesterday's Newark  Advocate article on the NAACP comedy or what?  "First we need to define the problem." LOL  The problem is the NAACP is a joke and as diversity coordinator and/or multicultural specialist for Newark City Schools and the chapter president (who had a conflict of interest from day one.  you can't monitor or police your pay source.) sat on her ass, got paid and did absolutely NOTHING.  So she doesn't need to look very far, because actually SHE is apart of the problem.  It is apparent the Licking County NAACP is a snake without fangs.  Pretty useless as the forum's attendance numbers and school district participation reflect. 5/26/04

What rock has the NAACP been under? Oh yeah, they have been busying planning social events, banquets and giving awards to themselves.  What do they do with all the money they raise? The achievement gap, curriculum and discipline rates for Black children have been issues within Newark City Schools for years.   As a parent, I have been asking questions for the past 10 years.   I read the reports the district produces and it's the primary reason why I sacrifice (I would rather drive the newest Volvo wagon.  It's cute! I would rather have a bigger house.) and send my Black kids to private schools.  A good education is priceless.  It's valuable.  We can't give our children a better gift.   It's also the reason why I work really hard to to establish programming to tutor/mentor the children in our community and encourage summer reading.  My children are fortunate to attend good schools.  My advocacy and commitment to the Newark's children  is to make sure all kids achieve academic success. 5/26/04.

I have always said, "If Tyrone can't read in school.  Tyrone can't read at home either."  What's wrong in the Black community, the Black community can fix!  5/24/04 

Cosby's remarks challenge us to discuss race honestly
By LEONARD PITTS JR.
Knight Ridder Newspapers

Maybe somebody spiked his Jell-O.

I bet the audience seriously considered the idea when Bill Cosby performed last week in Washington at a commemoration of Brown v. Board of Education.

According to the Washington Post, Cosby's routine ridiculed "lower-economic people" in the black community for their values, their mannerisms, their dysfunctions. He described them as "knuckleheads," complained that they'll buy $500 sneakers — "and won't spend $200 for Hooked on Phonics. ... They can't speak English. I can't even talk the way these people talk: 'Why you ain't? Where you is?'" There was more, but you get the gist.

The Post reports that Cosby's rant elicited "astonishment, laughter and applause." A "stone-faced" Howard University president H. Patrick Swygert went onstage afterward and pointedly reminded the crowd that many of the black community's problems are not self-inflicted. Which is true. It's also beside the point.

Have you ever wondered why it's almost impossible for blacks and whites to discuss race honestly? This episode is an answer in microcosm.

Blacks seldom publicly concede that some of the dysfunction suffered by the black underclass is self-inflicted for fear of giving aid and comfort to bigotry. So when analyzing racial progress or the lack thereof, black folk tend to emphasize racism.

Whites, on the other hand, are often loath to concede that racism remains the great ball and chain of black life for fear the admission will besmirch their benign self-image or be used to make them feel guilty. So they tend to emphasize dysfunction instead.

Blacks and whites have a way of talking past each other.

The fact is, Cosby said nothing about black underachievement that black people have not said before. His mistake, if you want to call it that, was in speaking publicly. Because publicly, we — black and white — prefer to stick to the script that makes it easiest on us, demands the least from us.

So let me say something for the record. Much as some white folk pretend otherwise, racism didn't vanish one fine day long ago. It lives, here, now, still. And it isn't something black people can cure through self-improvement. Racism doesn't care how educated, wealthy or decent you are. It will still call you ignorant, deny you a loan and throw you in jail. It will still give white people unearned advantages on the basis of their whiteness.

And yet this also is true: For all the woe it brings, racism is not the proximate source of all the ills that beset the black underclass. We do not need white people's approval or even their involvement to correct much of what ails us — to require that our children spend less time with BET and more with BOOK, to reconnect our fathers with their families, to abandon the misbegotten mind-set that equates ignorance and thuggery with authentic blackness.

Poverty and miseducation are a petri dish for dysfunction, no matter what color you are. If you don't believe that, go hang around a neighborhood of poor and miseducated white people sometime.

So we ought to be able to raise these issues without it being seen as a sop to bigotry. In pitting racism against self-inflicted dysfunction, we embrace a false dichotomy. These are not contradictory truths but the indispensable halves of a complex whole.

Yes, Cosby's comments were stereotypical, maybe downright mean. But for all that, his routine also reflected a willingness, rare in black people and white ones, to confront the obvious and raise issues that require more of us than the ability to feel put upon.

Maybe somebody did spike his Jell-O. Maybe they should spike ours, too. (5/24/04)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MALCOLM X! (5/19/2004)

Hopefully your messages will inspire us Today to better our community for our children and our futures!

By Any Means Necessary (Audio Speech)

About Malcolm X
"…I always had a deep affection for Malcolm and felt that he had a great ability to put his finger on the existence and the root of the problem. He was an eloquent spokesman for his point of view and no one can honestly doubt that Malcolm had a great concern for the problems we face as a race." Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in a telegram to Betty Shabazz after the murder of Malcolm X.

“Here – at this final hour, Harlem has come to bid farewell to one of its brightest hopes – extinguished now, and gone from us forever…. Many will ask what Harlem finds to honor in this stormy, controversial and bold young captain – and we will smile. …We will answer and say unto them, ‘Did you ever talk to Brother Malcolm? Did you ever really listen to him? …For if you did you would know him. And if you knew him you would know why we must honor him.’” Ossie Davis, actor, in his eulogy at Malcolm X’s funeral

What made Malcolm X Shabazz a great man, is that he had the guts to say what nine-tenths of American Negroes would like to say but don't have the guts to say. a Chicago doctor

Quotes from Malcolm

o        Without education, you're not going anywhere in this world.  

o        The only way we'll get freedom for ourselves is to identify ourselves with every oppressed people in the world. We are blood brothers to the people of Brazil, Venezuela, Haiti, Cuba -- yes Cuba too.  

o        Education is our passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today.  

o        Student's all over the world today are standing up for their rights and fighting for their rights, but here in America, the so-called Negro students have allowed themselves to be maneuvered under a tag of "sit-in". The word sit itself is not an honorable tag, anybody can sit, and old woman can sit, a coward can sit, a baby can sit, anything can sit, but it takes a man to stand.... Rather than to force our way into someone else's restaurant or public place that they have established, we should get our own. Once we have our own, we're respected for the fact that we can create our own. That's equality right there.  

o        You're not to be so blind with patriotism that you can't face reality. Wrong is wrong, no matter who does it or says it. 

o        I'm for truth, no matter who tells it. I'm for justice, no matter who it's for or against. 

o        There was two kinds of slaves. There was the house Negro and the field Negro. The house Negroes - they lived in the house with master, they dressed pretty good, they ate good 'cause they ate his food -- what he left. They lived in the attic or the basement, but still they lived near the master; and they loved their master more than the master loved himself. They would give their life to save the master's house quicker than the master would. The house Negro, if the master said, "We got a good house here," the house Negro would say, "Yeah, we got a good house here." Whenever the master said "we," he said "we." That's how you can tell a house Negro. If the master's house caught on fire, the house Negro would fight harder to put the blaze out than the master would. If the master got sick, the house Negro would say, "What's the matter, boss, we sick?" We sick! He identified himself with his master more than his master identified with himself. And if you came to the house Negro and said, "Let's run away, let's escape, let's separate," the house Negro would look at you and say, "Man, you crazy. What you mean, separate? Where is there a better house than this? Where can I wear better clothes than this? Where can I eat better food than this?" That was that house Negro. In those days he was called a "house nigger." And that's what we call him today, because we've still got some house niggers running around here.  

o        We didn't land on Plymouth Rock, Plymouth Rock landed on us

o        Dr. King wants the same thing I want. Freedom.
 

o        I am not a racist. I am against every form of racism and segregation, every form of discrimination. I believe in human beings, and that all human beings should be respected as such, regardless of their color. 

o        You don't have to be a man to fight for freedom. All you have to do is to be an intelligent human being. 

o        Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it. 

o        The political philosophy of black nationalism means that the black man should control the politics and the politicians in his own community; no more

o        Look at yourselves. Some of you teen-agers, students. How do you think I feel and I belong to a generation ahead of you - how do you think I feel to have to tell you, "We, my generation, sat around like a knot on a wall while the whole world was fighting for its human rights - and you've got to be born into a society where you still have that same fight ." What did we do, who preceded you ? I'll tell you what we did. Nothing. And don't you make the same mistake we made.

All of us are black first, and everything else second.

Thanks to ALL teachers.  We really appreciate your efforts!

The things you hear in the beauty shop.  First of all,  my hair looks good.  I heard that the public officials (mayor, police chief and school officials) were AGAIN duped by the local NAACP.  Rumor has it that they didn't know what the topic of discussion was going to be at the recent "emergency" meeting.   They received a phone call a few hours before the meeting and were told it was imperative that they attended. Some cancelled previously scheduled engagements.   I still don't get why anyone would trust a liar.  You don't trust a thief with money.  Anyway, this probably explains why many sat red-faced.  They were unprepared and deceived.  5/3/04

Question of the Day:  If Newark City School officials contend that there is a race issue within the District and particularly on the high school campus, why are they eliminating the District's Diversity Coordinator position?  Although since it's inception there hasn't been a professional in the position (being "elected" president of a civil rights organization by a bunch of white people from Granville doesn't count as professional experience). Who within the District will be assigned to this important task?  Previously the District hasn't taken students of color and their issues seriously.  In the last school levy campaign for example, the communication department and director felt it appropriate to depict a group of school children in printed materials, minus students of color.  A picture is worth a thousand words.  (I called to complain and suggested establishing an advisory group help communicate to the entire community.  No response. They just don't it get! In my marketing and public relations classes, we learned that consumers respond to ads that reflect their values, cultures and to folks that look like them. Again this speaks to the respect NCS gives to the Black community.) 5/3/04

Well they have seen the light... I have been voicing the same sentiments penned by the Hills since the NAACP and the NCS diversity position were co-mingled.   I have repeatedly questioned officials on why the NAACP has an active presence on campus.  Additionally, I have questioned why Newark City School resources (equipment, phones, long distance, computers, paper and time) are being used to promote the local NAACP.  A January diversity newsletter had 3 articles on NAACP fundraising activities. http://www.newarkadvocate.com/news/stories/20040429/opinion/320710.html

People are talking on the internet and now in the local paper.  I wonder who she is going to report the Advocate to for personally identifying information about her, her boss and their organization in their newspaper without her written consent. 4/30/2004

I still don't get why Newark City Schools is in bed with the NAACP.  Why didn't the district have its own forum to communicate with parents and citizens on the threats made against Black students?  Many in the community, particularly the Black community, do not respect the local NAACP.  This was not the best vehicle to communicate. 4/30/2004

By popular demand I am posting the false police report filed against citizens who attended a Newark City Schools diversity forum.  Nothing was done as no criminal activities were committed.

·         (Yes, NAACP materials were made available at a public school event.) For the record, after reporting the incident to school officials and the school board, NOTHING was done.  Those falsely accused didn't even get the courtesy of a written acknowledgement of receiving the complaint.  The district's response.  "You talk about her on the internet."   For the record, comments were made about the local NAACP on the internet, but what does that have to do with Newark City Schools?  Again, co-mingling Newark City Schools and the local NAACP.  4/30/2004

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§         Oct 7 email  (pdf format) or Oct 7 email (jpg format)- does this sound threatening? Since when can't citizens attend public school meetings?  The police blocked out the emails addresses.  Those cc'd included Jeremy Blake, Keith Richards and Cara Riddel.

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The big talk around town is racism. Everyone is going around discussing whether people are racists.  The reality is that America is RACIST.  There are two Americas.  One Black and one white.   There isn't a white person in the country who would switch skin tone and live as the average black person.

The country's founding principles are based on a racial hierarchy. Great wealth was created off of the free labor of slaves and  subsequently the oppression of Blacks.   Things haven't changed much.  White privilege, unearned benefits and opportunities based solely on skin tone,  is alive and well. Today, banks and insurance companies still redline.  Law enforcement racially profiles citizens.  Our judicial system disproportionately  prosecutes and incarcerates Black and brown people.  Employers tend to hire people who look like them.   In the Newark City School District, Black students are disciplined more often  than white students. Judging people simply on appearance and skin tone is a reality. 

The beauty of being an American is that people can think and believe whatever they chose. The issue isn't whether or not people are racist.  The issue is whether or not their actions impede on others rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. 

As a Black woman, I could care less whether racist white people like me. But in public places and establishments that receive public dollars, I am to be respected.  All Americans  have a right to feel and believe what they chose.  I have always taught my children that those who chose to use racial slurs are actually demonstrating THEIR character, spirituality and intellect -- not yours. 4/25/04.

Are the people of color who live in this community abnormal, in that we don't live in a community with large numbers of similar ethnicities?  (I really can't believe educated white people implying this.  How can white men comment on the life experiences of Black people? For the record, most Black people want the same American Dream as whites.  I want to live in a good crime-free neighborhood, pay less in taxes and  send my kids to good schools.  These traits aren't exclusive to the white community.) Additionally, I don't consider myself a minority because I have Black skin. Worldwide, there are more people who look like me than those that have white skin.  The term minority marginalizes and often has a negative tone.   4/25/04.

My phone rang off the hook after yesterday's NAACP emergency meeting. I almost missed the best parts of The Bachelor.  I can't believe Trish is still in the running.   Some of the comments about the meeting included,

·         "Rita is so out of touch with the Black kids.  She tried to put a good show on for the few in attendance, but I feel that she should take some of the blame for the incidents.  Isn't she the district's multicultural specialist? "

·          "Since when did Newark PD become friends of the Black community?  The same guys that harass and profile Black men are now standing up saying they will protect our children - PLEASE!"

·         "The meeting should be a wake-up call to Rita.  Where were her supporters? Only about 30 people were in attendance.  It is a shame that the NAACP couldn't rally the community around this important event.  Every Black person in town should have been there, but who considers Rita Jackson their leader?"

·         "Yes, Rita tried to sell NAACP memberships at her emergency meeting."

·         "The School officials in attendance were pitiful and on occasion very red-faced. How could they not know if multiculturalism is included in the curriculum?  Celebrating Black History month and Martin Luther King's birthday is not enough.  Are Black folks only included in social study lessons? 

·         After hearing the comments and reviewing the news accounts of the emergency meeting, I am really glad that I made the wise decision to send my high school students to very good college-prep schools (The Wellington School and The Columbus Academy). The responses of the administrators are totally unacceptable.  WAKE UP!  I would rather make the sacrifice and flip hamburgers after hours to help pay tuition at private schools to get my children a good quality education in an environment that RESPECTS all, has 100% graduation rate and where everyone goes to college after graduation.

I have MAJOR questions and concern regarding the recent incidents at the High School.  Does Newark City Schools have an ethnic/sexual orientation intimidation policy?  It is not acceptable for students to be harassed and threatened because of their race or sexual preference.  It is not acceptable for students to wear or display confederate flags or other gang symbols on the High School campus.  Additionally, why are the boys not in JAIL for threatening fellow students?   This behavior has been going on for over a month.  Many Black students believe the school district never took the matters seriously.

Newark City Schools is suppose to foster an environment for ALL students to learn.  Threats and intimidations are not conducive to learning. I have spoken with several high school students regarding this issue.  Black students commented that if they react to the racist comments and actions, they will be the ones punished rather than the ones causing the problems.  Who is looking out for the interests of Students of Color in Newark City Schools?  If we, as parents and a community, don't advocate for our kids, who will?  If this incident isn't a reason is get involved, what will it take? 4/20/2004

Where was the local NAACP when all of this was going down at the High School?  Oh yes, using precious space in the Newark Advocate to advertise and promote yet another fundraising banquet instead of advocating for the students of color in the public school district.  Interesting, the President of the local branch is also the outgoing District Diversity Coordinator who works on the High School campus, but hasn't taken the opportunity to rally her organization and help bring resolution to the issue.   This issue obviously isn't apart of her agenda to raise money. Oh, but then what Black family with children in the District would trust the Licking County NAACP or the Diversity Coordinator with an issue that affects their kids? I have been told by numerous students that the Diversity Coordinator/Multicultural Specialist won't even speak to Black students when she passes them in the hallway. 4/20/2004

I received several postings and emails about the Texas boys who appear to be wilding out on the High School since I started this Blog (Please visit the Guest Book and the postings below  The very first guest book entry spoke of this issue).   4/20/2004

Why is a gang of cowboys being allowed to disrupt the H.S. campus? Their gang symbols are cowboy hats and boots.   They also don Dixie Flags.   The racist boys are verbally assaulting many students of color and their friends.  Is there an ethnic intimidation policy in the District? 3/18/04

FYI about NHS.  Some boys from Texas going to Newark High seem to think black students shouldn't be allow at Newark High & they express this to the students.  The black students have told principals what they are saying, however, the black students are told to walk away or if they are going to fight them do it off school property. Whenever there is an incident, the cops seem to stand over the black kids and ignore the white kids that provoked the incident.  3/15/203 (received via email)

drama at the high school.  apparently, the young (white) men from texas was planning some kind of colombine thing on all the afro-american children at the high school.  It was discovered and they are suspended for 10 days.  but what i do not understand is why they are not recommending expulsion. 4/19/2004 (received via email)

The whole incident could have been avoided if things would have been nipped in the bud.  4/19/2004 (received via email)

AND  TO ALL THOSE PEOPLE WHO THINK I COULDN'T HAPPEN HERE.
THAT IS ONE OF THE REASONS I THINK I AM GOING TO CONTINUE VIRTUAL SCHOOLING 4/21/2001 (received via email)

My boys said that the NAACP president that works at the high school was no where to be found yesterday. The black students did not see her all day.  4/21/2001 (received via email)

I have MAJOR questions and concern regarding the recent incidents at the High School.  Does Newark City Schools have an ethnic/sexual orientation intimidation policy?  It is not acceptable for students to be harassed and threatened because of their race or sexual preference.  It is not acceptable for students to wear or display confederate flags or other gang symbols on the High School campus.  Additionally, why are the boys not in JAIL for threatening fellow students?   This behavior has been going on for over a month.  Many Black students believe the school district never took the matters seriously.

Newark City Schools is suppose to foster an environment for ALL students to learn.  Threats and intimidations are not conducive to learning. I have spoken with several high school students regarding this issue.  Black students commented that if they react to the racist comments and actions, they will be the ones punished rather than the ones causing the problems.  Who is looking out for the interests of Students of Color in Newark City Schools?  If we, as parents and a community, don't advocate for our kids, who will?  If this incident isn't a reason is get involved, what will it take? 4/20/2004

Where was the local NAACP when all of this was going down at the High School.  Oh yes, using precious space in the Newark Advocate to advertise and promote yet another fundraising banquet instead of advocating for the students of color in the public school district.  Interesting, the President of the local branch is also the outgoing District Diversity Coordinator who works on the High School campus, but hasn't taken the opportunity to rally her organization and help bring resolution to the issue.   This issue obviously isn't apart of her agenda to raise money.   Oh, but then what Black family with children in the District would trust the Licking County NAACP or the Diversity Coordinator with an issue that affects their kids? I have been told by numerous students that the Diversity Coordinator/Multicultural Specialist won't even speak to Black students when she passes them in the hallway.4/20/2004

Why is the NAACP having an emergency meeting NOW?  What are they going to do?  The branch president knew about the incidents at the High School.  I suppose she is now taking advantage of the publicity surrounding recent racist incidents. Or maybe she will use this opportunity to intimidate the bosses who "fired" her for incompetence.   Instead of writing letters to my internet service provider about comments on this site,  the local NAACP and its President should have been advocating for the Black students in the District.  So is the emergency meeting just another ploy to raise money and sell tickets for the upcoming hat party? 

I have openly complained about the education the children in the Newark City School District receive and some of the strange school policies.  I must honestly admit there are some GREAT teachers in NCS.  My son Nic is exposed to some really wonderful folks on a daily basis.  Thanks to the staff at Wilson for all you do to help the kids.   Specials kudos and thanks to Ms. Hinkle and Ms. Coley.  If I were in 7th grade, I would want to be in your classes! :-) 4-16-2004

We are starting a new community organization.  Interested!  Send me your email address to receive more information.  We have work to do. 4-16-2004

I was going to shut this site down.  I figured I had my opinion regarding the Newark City Schools drug-testing policy not only on this website but also in the Newark Advocate.  I also received a lot of positive comments from the community agreeing with my position.  Then I got this email from my web host stating that someone was complaining about the content...

Someone was mad because I think that Newark City Schools has wrong to reimburse a copyright owner (with tax dollars) because the District's Diversity Coordinator, used materials without the expressed written or verbal consent of the owner.

Someone was mad or embarrassed because I heard (while minding my own business in the beauty shop) about her retirement!  The big question, was it voluntary or FORCED because of her latest incident? 

In the beauty shop I heard, Someone recently told a teenage girl  in the school district that she should be glad that some potty mouthed boy called her a "Ho and not a "WH*&RE"  Please...Please email me the difference. 


Emailed comments: 

why is she so preoccupied with the content of your site. if it offends her...then why does she keep checking it out? the bible is offensive to some people because they don't believe in Christ...so they just don't read it. she needs to grow up. 

Does she know how fourth grade she sounds?  If no one knew who you were talking about, they sure do now.  There could be two diversity coordinators.  If she did not go around putting her title on every piece of paper in Newark, she may have been able to escape embarrassment. I guess if she doesn't want her dirty deeds public, she should stop doing stupid scandalous stuff. 

hey, just thought you might wanna hear something funny...yesterday when we were at my mom's house for dinner, (name withheld)  asked "who was the lady sitting up front in church with that saddle on her head?" girl, we hollered! it was rita and her hat did look like a saddle!


The only foot the glass slipper would fit is Cinderella's.  If the shoe fits, wear it. 

Hey Cindy, since you are now a regular visitor to the site, here are some thoughts to consider throughout the day: 

Proverbs and maxims

  • Truth exists; only falsehood has to be invented. (George Braque)
  • The truth is more important than the facts. (Frank L. Wright)
  • In the mountains of truth, you never climb in vain. (Nietzsche)
  • If you tell the truth, you have infinite power supporting you.

More quotes about honesty

  • There is no wisdom like frankness. (Disraeli)
  • A harmful truth is better than a useful lie. (Thomas Mann)
  • Honesty is the best policy.
  • Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom. (Jefferson)
  • One falsehood spoils a thousand truths. (Ashanti proverb)

8 great reasons to tell the truth

  1. Telling the truth lets everyone know what really happened. There's less chances of misunderstandings, confusion, or conflict.
  2. Telling the truth protects innocent people from being blamed or punished.
  3. Telling the truth allows everyone to learn from what happened.
  4. You usually get into less trouble for telling the truth than for lying (and getting caught).
  5. Other people trust you more when you tell the truth.
  6. You don't have to tell more lies to keep your story straight.
  7. You gain a reputation for being truthful - a trait that most people value.
  8. Telling the truth helps you feel secure and peaceful inside.

10 tips for being more truthful

  1. Make a commitment to tell the truth and honor it.
  2. Tell someone about your commitment and progress.
  3. Think before you give a dishonest answer, explanation, or reason.
  4. Be careful of when and how you use exaggeration, sarcasm, or irony. 
  5. Be careful not to twist the truth or leave out part of it.
  6. Don't indulge in little white lies; don't get caught in cover-ups.
  7. Watch out for silent lies. When you know about a lie and keep quiet, the lie lives on.
  8. When you catch yourself lying, throw your moth into reverse and tell the truth.
  9. Talk to yourself quietly and ask what is the best thing to do.
  10. Treat your to something special with you tell the truth even when it's hard.

Source: http://www.k12.hi.us/~mkunimit/honesty.htm


Look what someone sent to my website host.  She is back at it again. She must have forgotten we have been down this path before and  I don't back down very easy.   The last time she called my web host, I wrote a letter to the editor complaining that the civil rights organization she "leads" is suppressing my rights, particularly my right to freedom of thought and speech. Then strangely, but in RJ fashion, she called the police (which is public record) and filed a false report claiming, "She is talking about me and harassing me on the internet."


Hello Ronda,

We have recently received inquiries from Ms. Rita Jackson about content posted on your website. She has reported that you have posted personally identifying information about her, her boss and their organization on your website without their written consent.

She has sent her complaint on the basis of on our Terms and Conditions that "Content that posts or discloses any personally identifying information or private information about any third parties without their express consent" is prohibited by our hosting services (http://www.doteasy.com/Terms/index.cfm?T=TAC#13).

Ms. Jackson has asked for our assistance as her attempts to contact you were unsuccessful.

If Ms. Jackson's legal representatives should contact us with documentations and proofs or court orders regarding the content in question, Doteasy hosting services may be temporarily suspended for further investigation.

Thank you.


Regards,

Kathy

My response:  there is nothing on the website that violates the terms of agreement. any information posted on my website regarding rita jackson is apart of the public record of school board meetings. additionally, i never mention her by name. her guilty conscience is probably gettting the best of her. rita jackson continually tries to suppress my right to freedom of speech. mrs. jackson and certainly not the Newark City Schools has never tried to contact me. she and the district fully know my phone number, email address and mailing address. she has a personal agenda against me. she has contacted you before complaining.

please contact me with questions or concerns.

best,
ronda


Doteasy's response:

Hello Ronda,

Thank you for your email.

Ms. Jackson has emailed us on several occasions to have your website taken offline. However, until she can provide us sufficient documentations that the content in question is in violation to our service Terms and Conditions, we will not be taking any actions towards account suspension. We have advised her that the claim she is trying to make is a very sensitive matter as we are not aware of any prior arrangements between yourself and Ms. Jackson.

Thank you.

Another message from Doteasy -

Hello Ronda,

We have continued to receive complaints regarding particular contents on your website.

We kindly ask that you remove content that identifies other individuals from your website. Content will include names and personally-identifying information of persons who have not explicitly expressed their wish to have information posted.

We will continue to review documentations that are presented to us. We kindly ask for your compliance until we have further investigated the matter. If we should receive further complaints and if the complainant should proceed further legal action, we will have no choice but the suspend hosting services until the matter has been resolved between you and the complainant.

Thank you.


Newark City School Wastes

  1. Spending $40,000 to analyze urine for athletes citing the U.S. Supreme Court says it is okay, but failing to test the entire student population.  The robed ones in D.C. say it is okay to test the bands and choirs but Newark won't.  Could this be a class thing or race thing? Most members of the band come from middle-class families but everyone (rich, middle-class and poor) participates in sports. 3/17/04
  2. Settling with and reimbursing a film production company because the Diversity Coordinator, who in 2003 didn't have a job description, violated copyright rules  Wonder how much was spent? Dirt and details soon. 3/17/04
    • I think Keith Richards should reimburse the District the funds used to pay off the copyright owners.  He KNEW the Diversity Coordinator plagiarized information and ideas in the past, as other incidents were brought to his attention.  Common sense would tell anyone, particularly based on past evidence,  not to trust her or at least verify any information she provided.   As a result, our tax dollars have been spent to cover up a lie.  Shame...Shame...Why didn't the District make her cough up the fees to settle this? Oops,  I forgot we blindly trust the adults in the District, even when they show patterns of corruption, but hold students to a different standard. 3/30/04
  3. Paying a diversity coordinator, who doesn't have any professional experience, a salary and not having a job description or mission to follow. 3/17/04
  4. Allowing the Newark City Schools Multicultural Newsletter to promote NAACP fundraising activities. It's both unethical and a conflict of interest. Did the NAACP pay for the advertising? Who paid for the printing of this publication? 3/17/04
  5. Paying a webmaster to produce a user-friendly website, but information on the site is missing or old. Why aren't the minutes for NCS Board Meetings in 2004 posted online? There have been 3 in 2004. Are they trying to hide something?  The October, November and December 2003 pages won't load either.  What's up?  3/17/04
  6. Not providing a textbook for all students is an obvious waste of District resources.  The District's priority MUST be to provide all students with the necessary textbooks in an effort to achieve academic success. How are the students to learn if they don't have textbooks and other classroom resources? 3/22/04
  7.  I know NCS has other wastes PLEASE email them to me.  We have to protect our money and investments in the district. 3/17/04
     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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