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Just My Thoughts...

"Emily" recently posted a message to my board.  She stated "I think you should help more with the basketball parents. It's only fair. You talk the talk but you need to walk the walk."

My response:  I do walk the walk. FYI...The boys have a tournament game the same time as freshman orientation. I made the suggestion to have the orientation taped for you parents to view.  The result...the orientation WILL BE TAPED for later viewing.   I am highly involved in activities that affect the children in our community. I operate a summer reading program and a student mentoring program. I simply choose to put my energies in more positive and productive avenues. Emily and the others should be more concerned about the coach ranting, raving and bullying around our sons, rather than me selling hotdogs.

Thanks for reading my site. The beauty of America is that I can express my opinion, whether you like it or not.

Best,
Ronda


I would like to clarify my posting from last evening.  I don't know for a fact that Kim Huffman stole my campaign yard signs.  Although, numerous people in the community, some who I don't even know, have stopped me and share this tidbit of information. (1-26-05)

Well the immaturity at Wilson Middle Schools basketball games continues.  I have tried to conduct myself as the respectable woman that I am, but the very next time the woman who stole me, Heidi and Mark's campaign yard signs gets up in my face, I am going to forget all tact and go there.  As my new favorite rapper TI says "You Don't Know Me."  For the record, I have ethics and integrity and REFUSE to support a program that is UNFAIR and disrespects MY child.   Remember, "You Don't Know Me." Heed the  rumors, I am crazy as hell. I stand up and protect my children.  If I don't, who will.  Mrs. Huffman, your indignation should be with the fact that there were 15 boys on the team and half didn't get to play most of the season, not that I refused to work a concession stand.  "You Don't Know Me." (1-25-05)


I have held my tongue for way too long regarding the Newark Basketball program.  I am appalled that the coaching philosophy touts winning over the self-esteem of student athletes.  Something is up when athletes wish they had never tried out or made the team. I thought that sports was supposed to be a fun outlet for the players.  Remember, the team is only as good as the weakest players.  I guess the rumors are true if you are vocal on school issues or if you don't kiss the butts of the athletic department, your kid sits the bench.  For all appearances, the 8th grade players on the Wilson team are more mature than the adults that surround them within the program. Fifteen guys on team and only six guys play. If you make the team, there should be playing time for all.  The shameful part is that parents are fearful to speak up!  They aren't playing so what harm can be done.  Perhaps the coaching staff should review the Coaches Fair Play Code below.  AGAIN, winning isn't everything! I strongly suggest that the athletic department survey the parents and players at the end of every season to get insight on the adults that are coaching our kids. (1-21-05)

   Coaches Fair Play Code
   

1.      I will be reasonable when scheduling games and practices, remembering that young people have other interests and obligations.

2.      I will teach my athletes to play fairly and to respect the rules, officials and opponents.

3.      I will ensure that all athletes get equal instruction, support and opportunities.

4.      I will not ridicule my athletes for making mistakes or performing poorly. I will remember that young people play to have fun and must be encouraged to have confidence in themselves.

5.      I will remember that young people need a coach they can respect. I will be generous with praise and set a good example.

6.      I will make sure that equipment and facilities are safe and match the athletes’ ages and abilities.

7.      I will obtain proper training and continue to upgrade my coaching skills.

Will all elected officials please stand up!!!! (lol)


I need resolution to the Collusion!

Newark's Law Director Jim Hostetter must either be a BLAZING IDIOT or totally morally corrupt. 

How in his right mind can he determine that Steve Schaller, a member of the City's Zoning Appeal Board, conducted himself properly, when he actively participated in a vote that benefited a client of his law firm?

According to DUMBO, since Schaller didn't directly represent the criminals June and James Sachs, there wasn't a conflict of interest.  PLEASE!!!!!  Even if unethical Schaller didn't appear in court to represent evil June and James, he had prior knowledge of the case and he financially benefited when his law firm accepted a retainer from the old evil ones.  His vote was bought!   Since when don't senior partners know what cases junior partners are working on? 

Perhaps we should begin a recall of the Law Director.  He has proven that he doesn't have the best interest of all citizens at heart.  Looks to me like criminals protecting each other.   This is just another incident demonstrating just how CORRUPT Newark's city government is!!! Do I still have the address to the ethics commission? Something just doesn't smell right!!!! (12-09-04)

Is it true that the local NAACP can't get any members to run for office?  Numerous calls were made to a select group of members to solicit interest in running for elected office. (Wonder why they didn't call all members or post a notice in the newspaper?)  Regardless, no one is interested! 

In typical NAACP fashion, the group was organized enough to plan and collect money from a banquet in September, but they can't rally their troops to conduct a mandatory election. The election should have taken place in November.   Looks like the president has again prevented a democratic vote in the civil rights organization.  Rumor has it that she will be prez again merely by default (No one wants to be associated with the branch) (12-09-04)

Social Justice is a Moral Issue, too!

Word of the Day - Fiduciary

Black's Law Dictionary describes a fiduciary relationship as "one founded on trust or confidence reposed by one person in the integrity and fidelity of another."  A fiduciary has a duty to act primarily for the client's benefit in matters connected with the undertaking and not for the fiduciary's own personal interest.  Scrupulous good faith and candor are always required.  Fiduciaries must always act in complete fairness and may not ever exert any influence or pressure, take selfish advantage, or deal with the client in such a way that it benefits themselves or prejudices the client.  Business shrewdness, hard bargaining, and taking advantage of the forgetfulness or negligence of the client are totally prohibited by a fiduciary. (11-16-04)

Question of the Day: Is there something in the water?   "Soul Food, Chitterlings, Collard Greens, Cornbread, and Yams - What the slaves ate"  This event is an all time low even for the founder of the hip-hop school.  I have received so many emails and comments.  A sampling is below:

  • Is she crazy?

  • Is this serious or is someone playing a joke?

  • How offensive?  I am really offended by the title.  She is setting Black folks back 40 years.  This is really scary.  Not all Black folks eat chitterlings, collard greens, cornbread and yams.  Girl, you need to come back to big city.  Are you sure Black folks are promoting this?  It just don't sound right.

  • Who really cares what the slaves ate?  Actually, if the slaves were cooking it, white folks were probably eating it too.

  • Have you been to Walmart or Meijer recently? They have a bunch of chitterlings for sale.  If we only make up two percent of the population, I know they didn't only stock the shelves for the Black consumption of the chitterlings.  The numbers just don't reflect it.  (So who is really eating chitterlings in Newark?)

  • She is a disgrace to Black folks worldwide.  (11-16-04)

I made the national press.  (11-6-04)

Questions of the Day:  I wonder what avenues, we as taxpaying citizens take when our elected officials and their governing bodies behave unethically and/or participate in blatant COLLUSION and DISCRIMINATION? Do integrity and ethics matter at 40 W. Main St?  Does money buy justice in City Hall? If I want a decision or vote to go my way, do I just hire the outside services of a commission member or contribute to a political campaign?(11-12-04)

More on The City of Newark incident

 COLLUSION - A secret agreement and cooperation for a fraudulent or deceitful purpose; a playing into each other's hands; deceit; fraud; cunning.  Although I am not a lawyer, I wonder if collusion would be a good way to describe the actions of the law director and a certain member of the Zoning Appeals Board.  Interesting that one member of the board is the the attorney for the couple that complained about my fence.  The average citizen would think collusion took place, as the member of the board wasn't impartial and probably for the sake of ethics shouldn't have participated in a vote.  COLLUSION!!! (11-8-04)

 

Woman alleges assault, discrimination at city hall

Transcript of my comments before City Council

Email comments I recently received:

  • Barch said there is no way to know for sure if a witness is 'impartial. 'I am still shaking my head. I thought it was a judge/jury to decide if someone is impartial. 

  • Sounds like madness in hickville. (11-1-04)

  • What the hell is going on?  That is some crazy crap. (11-3-04)
     

I wish I were a white man! After being assaulted in City Hall on Tuesday, the City's Law Director's Office REFUSED to press charges against the criminal who hit me.  They didn't believe that they could get a conviction although they didn't allow the process to play out in a court of law.  It is most evident that there are two sets of laws in Newark.  One for old rich white men who contribute to the political campaign of the Law Director and a set for the rest of us. 

It is most interesting that James Sachs and his evil wife June, have undue and powerful influence in the Law Director's Office.  The Law Director's office, strangely and repeatedly pressured the Zoning Inspector to "get that fence down" even before the Zoning Commission was able to hear the case. That doesn't seem fair.  Why have the hearing if the case was pre-determined?  Why was someone who has a personal relationship and grew up on Glenmore able to participate in the process?  He should have removed himself from the decision-making process.   Perhaps the racists Sachs really are big donors to the Law Director and their contributions are affording them the right to harass Newark citizens. (10-27-04)

  • FIRST FEDERAL RACIAL PROFILING PROVISION APPROVED
     

  • Black women and AIDS
     

  • Please tell ten friends to tell ten today! The Breast Cancer site is having trouble getting enough people to click on it daily to meet their quota of donating at least one free mammogram a day to an underprivileged woman . It takes less than a minute to go to their site and click on "donating a mammogram" for free (pink window in the middle). This doesn't cost you a thing. Their corporate sponsors/advertisers use the number of daily visits to donate mammogram in exchange for advertising. Here's the web site! Pass it along to people you know. www.thebreastcancersite.com

 

For the record and out of respect for my good white friends and husband,  I KNOW THAT NOT ALL WHITE FOLKS ARE RACIST OR CRAZY!

 

After an interesting conversation with the City's Safety Director, I was shocked with her position why the man who hit me didn't get arrested.  "The officers used discretion." Question of the Day:  How do you know if you are getting good discretion or bad discretion?  How do you know if the officer you are interacting with is using stereotypes, personal bias or life experiences when he decides rather to arrest you or not?  Is this the reason why there are more Black people in jail than white folks?  Discretion! (10-28-04)

For the Record:  I still contend that I was hit in city hall and no one was arrested. City Hall should be a no-tolerance zone for violence.   Even while filing the police report, the assailant, still behaving badly, walks into the lobby (in front of police officers and witnesses) and starts yelling and putting his finger closely to my face. He and his wife were out of control and he still wasn't arrested. Old man Sachs was simply gingerly escorted out of the room like he was someone's beloved grandfather.  His behavior was totally unacceptable, regardless of his age. Affirmed by my life experiences, I know that I could not conduct myself in that manner and not be arrested. 
 
Discretion can also mean discrimination. (And since when doesn't the victim get the benefit of discretion) (10-28-04)
 

I was assaulted in City Hall yesterday and the the perp, James Sachs, didn't get arrested.  I still can't believe someone actually hit me after a public forum.  Did I mention there were witnesses?  Should I call the local NAACP to complain that my civil rights appear to have been violated?  All I know is that the City sent police officers to the Zoning Commission Meeting in anticipation of a big Black wolf being in attendance.  While all eyes were looking for the "menacing" Black man, an old white man flew under the radar and slugged me in the arm, apparently because he didn't like something I said.  After he hit me, his wife June was equally disorderly. She was cursing and pointing her finger closely to my face. She didn't get arrested either.  Let's turn in the tables, if I would have slugged him or made profane disorderly comments, I KNOW I would be taking up a cigarette fund for my time behind bars.  Will the Prosecutor's Office be as vehement in pursuing a case against an old white man and his crazy wife who commits a crime or do they only actively look into cases where whites are the victims? I still can't believe he hit me.  Is Johnnie Cochran still accepting cases? (10-27-04)

In its continued pattern of harassment by the City of Newark, I was most surprised by the comments of a Newark City Police Officer who "stopped" by my house after receiving a complaint from the old man James Sachs who slugged me.  I had lawfully parked my car in the city right-away in front of his home.  The officer said, "If they are unhappy, they call me and I am unhappy, which means I have to make you unhappy."   What gives with that? Was that a threat? What does that mean?  Was he predisposed to make a decision before speaking with me simply based on the information provided by a old man who hit me? I guess I am going to have to call the NAACP and get them to call an emergency meeting.    Some days, after dealing with crazy racist whites folks, I just don't feel like being Black. (10-27-04)

Bill Cosby Urges Black Students to Study (posted 10-21-04)

Is the Castle on the Canal creating more Step-it and Fetch-its? (News Flash...Black children are more than capable of just rapping and performing.  As responsible adults, we  should encourage our children to develop their intellect rather than entertaining and chasing a "pipe" dream.) Who in their right mind would encourage children to pursue rap and hip-hop as a career or lifestyle?  Did the proprietor of the "school" read Dr. Bill Cosby's recent critique on some of the problems in the Black community?  Oh, I forgot, the proprietor is one of Newark's biggest problems.  Precious resources are being taken away from Newark City Schools for a sham of an enterprise.  What a shame that NCS has to reimburse the "school" for every student who enrolls in the Hip-Hop Academy. (10-18-04)

  • Rumor has it:

    • That children and their parents are being paid to attend the "school".  

    • The building located at 211 E. Main Street was actually given to the local NAACP, interestingly it was titled in an individual's name, wonder who???

Four years ago I and others tried to bring honesty and integrity to the NAACP.  We saw that corruption under the leadership of Rita Jackson was rampant.   I publicly questioned the strange relationship between Newark City Schools and the local branch...I can  now  broadly smile and say "I told you!" (10-18-04)

Question of the Day:

Why is the local NAACP and its virtually white leadership purchasing books for the Newark Public Libraries?  Doesn't the library system receive public dollars?  If so, they have a responsibility to the entire community to see that books by Black authors are apart of their collection.  The local NAACP is soliciting funds to keep their telephones on, but they seem to have resources to buy books for the library... (10-18-04)

During the Democrat National Convention, I was most impressed with the next Senator from the State of Illinois BARACK OBAMA .  To read the transcript of  his speech at the convention follow this link.
 

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